It's Officicial...I had my first melt down....

[TaivensMama]

OK as my previous post read, I have been continuously interrupted by the babies and unable to workout longer than 15 minutes when the workout time I need is 35 for just the start up DVD for power 90 (it will soon add 10 more minutes on the next phase) and then another 10 for the ab work out...I feel like I will be a blubbery heifer for the rest of time at this rate...:(

In desperation I texted Neil to see when he would be home and he said he was on his way....I don't know what "broke the camels back" but of course both babies were losin it...Taiven was helping quiet Sawyer and I set Skye up in the highchair...(thank god for Taiven) i had a sink full of dishes I had to get done before they crusted over from dinner before I could work out, and I just started to sobb, uncontrollably...like snot and tears dripping from my face and wouldn't you know it...Neil walks in and I couldn't stop...he desperately kept asking what is wrong...I couldn't speak...after I gained some ability to talk I just started spilling "I never have a effin minute to myself, I can't get anything done, and they won't stop crying for more than five seconds!" he quickly packs up the kids and takes them all on a walk (mind you it is nearing 9pm) but he saw how desperate I was for a break...he asked if an hour was enough time for me to have some time...and that seems like a whole day at this point so I gratfully said yes...

I am sure many more of these are to come, but it happens to the best of us :bag

[Stacey]

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[lizirroja]

You poor thing. That would have happened on week 2 for me, so you're doing GREAT! Glad your man knows what to do in time of crisis. LOL

[meeg124]

:hug :hug Glad Neil was able to get everyone out the door for a little bit for you.

[MamaLaura]

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I'm so sorry. I've definitely had those moments.

But wow! You have a great hubby! That was really sweet! I hope you enjoy(ed) your time! You deserve it, mama.

[Lynette]

Awww...what a good guy and I have so been their myself :hug Sometimes just a good cry helps you get some of the stress out :(

[MARIBEL]

:hug I've done the same thing. Poor Vic he got scared.. He took me shopping :D Although I need a breake badly I just can't be away from my babies. I'm sorry you had a bad day :hug

[KaisaG]

Aww man Seasyn sorry you had to go through it. I can't imagine doing your job... Glad Neil was able to help you out tonight so you could have some you time :hug

[Maritza]

:hug I am glad Neil came home on time so you can have some time for yourself.

[becky]

:hug i don't know how you have held up for so long. I sure hope you were able to enjoy your alone time.

That is how i felt on monday when it seemed everything was going wrong and it was a total day from hell. thank goodness Victor is a new man and has has been so awesome. I hope neil will get the hint and help you out more.

[jellybeanmichelle]

Awww...what a good guy and I have so been their myself :hug Sometimes just a good cry helps you get some of the stress out :(

You can say that again. :hug :hug :hug

[weg'smom]

:hug I'm so sorry you had a tough day but am happy that you have such a supportive husband to help you out!! Take care of yourself:hug :hug :hug

[Leigh]

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[TaivensMama]

thanks ladies, what would I do without your support:) I was able to actually finish my workout in peace!...and the best part is Neil and Taiven both got to exercise by walking the babies for an hour...then I had some time on SCM with NAKing!!!!!!! and I feel so much better...and next I get to take a shower!!! I needs to rinse off all the sweat from the workout, after he gets out it's my turn hehehe

[ladybish]

go DH!!

[Kellie_MO5]

:hug SO glad he got home and saw you *really* needed some time and was able to give it to you (hehe, yeah, I always have a dirty mind)
Next time just come over to my house and we'll dump all the babes on Matt and go to Starbucks ;)

[becky]

ooh can i come too?

[Kellie_MO5]

LOL, sure, why not... Matt *did* just clean the living room... LOL

[erin anne]

:hug that was sweet of Neil to "get it" and take them off your hands. Glad you got to work out and a nice shower :)

[TaivensMama]

:hug SO glad he got home and saw you *really* needed some time and was able to give it to you (hehe, yeah, I always have a dirty mind)
Next time just come over to my house and we'll dump all the babes on Matt and go to Starbucks ;)

hahahahahah you are hilarious....

[Kellie_MO5]

hahahahahah you are hilarious....
What?.... Oh, you think I am Joking! HAHA ;)

[TaivensMama]

hahahahaha, does Matt know of your little plan??? heheheh

[Kellie_MO5]

I just told him... he didn't really *have* a reply... :giggle

[TaivensMama]

hehehehe

[karen-clark]

Oh no reply is an automatic green light in my house!!

Seasyn, I am glad you are feeling better. I have been there, crying uncontrollably so much that dh thinks something HORRIBLE has happened, but not being able to explain... gawd I am glad that is in the past. And that was just with 1 crying baby. You are doing great, and it will get easier!!!

[TaivensMama]

Thank you Karen :):)

[Dianne0701]

Now go schedule some more "daddy walks" on the calendar! Things will get easier though. Pretty soon Skye will be doing the dishes while Sawyer cleans the living room LOL.:hug :hug :hug

[Lorah]

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I'm sorry.

I totally feel for you!

[khanson]

:hug I can't believe you held on as long as you did! Glad Neil took the kids out for a little while though. It was much needed.

[howardvm]

:hug Yes, super mom, I, like everyone else, cannot believe you went as long as you have without a meltdown! Even wonderwoman needs a break every now and then:)

[TaivensMama]

thanks gals...I think Neil now knows that this needs to be a more regular thing...and I hope he takes the initative (sp?) and makes it a habbit if he wants me to have time to work out...

and Venessa you are too funny with your super hero talk hehe

[LessasLashes]

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I am so happy you got a much needed break.. I'm impressed at Neil's quick intuition. I probably would end up turning into a lion, having to spell it out that I need a break. The other day I kept texting that I needed a "private" bathroom break.. I got so mad when he didn't respond (DH is often in the crevaces if our garage working).. I ended up taking Sophia attached to the boob into the bathroom.. DH shows up 10 min. later.. wondering why I've got the evil attitude going... he had no idea as he left the phone outside by the grill... grrr

[Marisa]

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I am so happy you got a much needed break.. I'm impressed at Neil's quick intuition.

:yeah And to get out of the house that quickly even. :hug to you. I hope he starts giving you regular mama time. You're amazing! :hug

[Colleen&Kail]

im sorry seasyn. i think we all have days lik that but im glad neil was so quick to help out.

[Lorah]

How are you doing today Seasyn? I was thinking about you and then saw this thread come up again today. Just check in on ya! :) :hug

[TaivensMama]

doing great, It's amazing what that little break has done...I spent the day shopping with brooke and found Skye the most adorable dress for a wedding we are going to...and the kids slept sooooooo good last night and a good friend of mine (who was in my wedding who I havn't seen in a couple months) is coming over to hang out with me and the kiddos today :) Thanks for Asking Lorah :)

[Lorah]

:) I'm glad its better! Breaks are GOOD! :)

I hope you have fun today! :)