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Sara
01-28-2008, 11:09 AM
Are you planning on becoming pregnant anytime in the future?

khanson
01-28-2008, 11:10 AM
Yeah, sometime in the future. Thinking maybe in 6 mos or so. We'll see. I'm so NOT ready right now!

nona23
01-28-2008, 11:18 AM
I marked the "already pregnant but having no more" box - but who's to say, if this one turns out to be a boy I know Ian will want to try again at some point. But really, I'm liking the idea of this being it :)

Sara
01-28-2008, 11:22 AM
I said on the fence still. I seriously go back and forth a few times every day.

Adriana
01-28-2008, 11:24 AM
Yes, hopefully soon :)

Kellie_MO5
01-28-2008, 11:25 AM
We have no idea.. though right now we *are* leaning towards being done, but not 100% sure... the thought of no more little babies is so sad! lol

lmfike
01-28-2008, 11:27 AM
We're done here. I had my last remaining tube tied after I had Jules. I had already lost one tube the year before with my ectopic.

nona23
01-28-2008, 11:27 AM
I marked the "already pregnant but having no more" box - but who's to say, if this one turns out to be a boy I know Ian will want to try again at some point. But really, I'm liking the idea of this being it :)

Totally ment If this one turns out to be a girl - silly :)

Adriana
01-28-2008, 11:29 AM
Totally ment If this one turns out to be a girl - silly :)


I was wondering :) Thought maybe you just wanted to have two girls or something.

KaisaG
01-28-2008, 11:29 AM
Depends who you ask... If you ask me, YES!! If you ask DH no :(

Marisa
01-28-2008, 11:30 AM
I said yes, hopefully soon. We're trying but not *too* hard, just having fun ;)

Luckylove
01-28-2008, 11:33 AM
I marked currently pg but done after this. Unless there is some kind of accident then we are done.

nona23
01-28-2008, 11:53 AM
I said yes, hopefully soon. We're trying but not *too* hard, just having fun ;)

What would "trying too hard" be? Doing it ten times a day? :giggle

TaivensMama
01-28-2008, 11:56 AM
Nona I am right there with you, neil says if this one isn't a boy he will be on the fence about getting snipped...I told him he better find another woman to carry and care for that child if he wants another after this...

Marisa
01-28-2008, 11:58 AM
What would "trying too hard" be? Doing it ten times a day? :giggle

:lol Yep! We stop at 9...

nona23
01-28-2008, 12:02 PM
Nona I am right there with you, neil says if this one isn't a boy he will be on the fence about getting snipped...I told him he better find another woman to carry and care for that child if he wants another after this...

:yeah :nut

Lisa
01-28-2008, 12:32 PM
I said on the fence. If I'm honest I don't really want anyone else to take care of. But, I love being pregnant and the excitement of having another baby. I also would like the kids to have one more sibling. Mike says NO WAY. But he said that before Jack. Plus we never use anything so it's a posibility!

JuliaSannar
01-28-2008, 12:38 PM
Depends who you ask... If you ask me, YES!! If you ask DH no :(

:yeah

I would love have more, but DH thinks we are done.

Theresa
01-28-2008, 12:47 PM
Depends who you ask... If you ask me, YES!! If you ask DH no :(

This is us, but opposite. I'm so done, but Roy would love to have more and try for a son. Not going to happen.

Lorah
01-28-2008, 12:58 PM
I had to mark both hopefully soon AND letting fates decide since *we* wanted to get pregnant last March/April, and *we* were hoping to be already caring for a newborn right now, but *fate* or something seems to think that it isn't the right timing yet :(

We are still trying to get pregnant, and we hope to have a second and final child be born before 2009. If that doesn't happen then DH says he will be done with just Mav. :(

LMS
01-28-2008, 01:12 PM
no, i'm SO done :lol We aren't making any permanent decisions (like the big V) yet.... we'll wait to do that until I've past the timeframe where i'm likely to have baby fever again... but maybe you shouldn't be asking this on my first day home alone with both kids :lol

Sara
01-28-2008, 01:20 PM
no, i'm SO done :lol We aren't making any permanent decisions (like the big V) yet.... we'll wait to do that until I've past the timeframe where i'm likely to have baby fever again... but maybe you shouldn't be asking this on my first day home alone with both kids :lol

Lol, it gets easier, I promise :)

erin anne
01-28-2008, 01:34 PM
I hope to TTC after we move (in April/May)...I want 3 or 4, DH is DEADSET on only 2....woe is me :(

Lorah
01-28-2008, 01:36 PM
I had to mark both hopefully soon AND letting fates decide since *we* wanted to get pregnant last March/April, and *we* were hoping to be already caring for a newborn right now, but *fate* or something seems to think that it isn't the right timing yet :(

We are still trying to get pregnant, and we hope to have a second and final child be born before 2009. If that doesn't happen then DH says he will be done with just Mav. :(

Oops, I just reread my post...I mean we hope to have a new one born before 2009 is over.... or more specifically we want to get pregnant before 2008 is over.
And when I say *we*, I really mean *dh* wants that to happen....I would be fine waiting until it just happens, even if it took longer.

becky
01-28-2008, 02:01 PM
I have always wanted 4 kids and a boy. DH is so done but hasn't done anything to keep us from getting pregnant again so anything is possible.

Lisa
01-28-2008, 02:04 PM
Lol, it gets easier, I promise :)

It does?

Lorah
01-28-2008, 02:05 PM
Ya, when they all leave home for college or whatever. :giggle

lizirroja
01-28-2008, 03:27 PM
It does? Yes, in like 2 years. Haha just kidding.

lizirroja
01-28-2008, 03:30 PM
I don't know how to answer this one. We are definitely done trying to have kids, but if there is an "oops" down the road we would just go with it and be just as excited as before. And I have often thought of adopting. So, I guess the answer is "no", but not so emphatic.

JeriAnne
01-28-2008, 03:45 PM
DH is done - I still have the option to have more kids - I would just have to explain to DH why....lol.

IN all seriousness I (we) are done! Two is enough for me and even though I have empty uterus symdrom I know that I cannot mentally handle more then the two I have now.

Juls318
01-28-2008, 04:19 PM
For sure we are having one more and then not sure after that but most likely that will be it. I am hoping to start trying in the spring/summer.

MARIBEL
01-28-2008, 09:36 PM
We are done, this is our last one :)

stephaniemsw
01-28-2008, 10:24 PM
I'm pretty sure we are done (after we welcome the baby in my belly!). DH is looking forward to "the big V" in the sense of not having to worry. He is definitely not excited about babies. We have talked about adopting and may do that down the line (adopt a toddler or older child), but I am pretty sure we will stick with 2.

Lorah
01-29-2008, 10:43 AM
I'm pretty sure we are done (after we welcome the baby in my belly!). DH is looking forward to "the big V" in the sense of not having to worry. He is definitely not excited about babies. We have talked about adopting and may do that down the line (adopt a toddler or older child), but I am pretty sure we will stick with 2.

Heheeh maybe that is another reason they get along so well...lol...though I'm sure neither of them knows the other feels the same...and I'm not going to tip my dh off that others share his opinion.... he doens't really enjoy or prefer babies... he keeps asking why they can't come out as toddlers. Ummmm yaaaaa.... we have also talked about adoption down the line too. I am all for that if it falls into place someday. I have two adopted siblings (not sure if I have said that before) and I love them both the same and as much as my bio-sibs. :)

Maritza
01-29-2008, 11:39 AM
Nope, I think I am done:)
I am not emotionaly ready for another pregnancy and baby in the near future :(

MamaLaura
01-29-2008, 02:37 PM
I said yes, in the future sometime. Once I'm remarried, I'd definitely love to have at least one more. Once I'm done, I'd like to surrogate at least a couple of times. I love being pregnant!

colleen&Kail
01-29-2008, 03:13 PM
i said yes, in the future. i have always wanted 3....

becky
01-29-2008, 06:20 PM
I said yes, in the future sometime. Once I'm remarried, I'd definitely love to have at least one more. Once I'm done, I'd like to surrogate at least a couple of times. I love being pregnant!i think being a surrogate is a wonderful gift. Kudos to you for even considering that.

becky
01-29-2008, 06:21 PM
i said yes, in the future. i have always wanted 3....Having 3 are so much fun but so much work too

Sara
01-29-2008, 07:26 PM
We have no idea.. though right now we *are* leaning towards being done, but not 100% sure... the thought of no more little babies is so sad! lol

Now you don't have to be sad :giggle

weg'smom
01-29-2008, 07:35 PM
I said one more in the future. I'd love to be pregnant NOW but I'll welcome it whenever it happens.

Kellie_MO5
01-29-2008, 07:40 PM
LMAO.. yeah, I need to change my vote... lol

Katie
01-30-2008, 07:35 AM
DH is fine with just Jess but agreed to 1 more when Jess is potty trained. I am secretly hoping we can have 3!!!! But I am ok with just 2.

My3sonsplus1
01-30-2008, 02:46 PM
Well I will go on record and say we are planning at the very least on taking a break... dh feels and I do not disagree that we are already spread quite thin as it is as far as giving the kids "enough" 1 on 1 attention.We don't have much of a support system so it has been difficult thus far to get time away from the kids to be a couple or to do those fun theoretical one on 2 times with just one kid and a parent/both parents once a month or whatever for an hour or two while the others are being babysat... there aren't many people I trust with the kids/the kids are comfortable with and add on that that the kids are petrified of animals and that rules out bringing them to someones house that that I trust (if they would even be willing to watch the kids) that have animals in their home...

katiebird22
04-06-2008, 11:30 AM
Hopefully I can get my husband to agree to having another. We have one awesome little boy, but I would like to have 2 kids. My son is 9 months old, I would like to have another by the time my son is 3...maybe even if they are 2 years apart that would be good. My husband says that we have the best baby in the world and by having another we might ruin him.

momtoM&D
04-07-2008, 09:32 AM
We are definitely done! I've definitely felt our family is complete ever since Dorian came along. Besides, there's no way we could have a third in a 2br apt!

*Kelley*mom
04-11-2008, 10:59 PM
I am totally done. We have one boy and one girl so I feel I have a complete "set".I know dh would like more since he is having a hard time with me trying to get rid of the crib and changing table. But I am so done. Jeffrey ahs been really hard for me.